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Dog Show Etiquette Cheat Sheet

A Guide for Juniors, New Handlers & Guests

Ring & Prep Area Etiquette

🕛Be Ready & On Time – Arrive early and be at ringside before your class.
🧹Keep It Clean – Pick up after your dog and yourself. Crates, grooming areas, and aisles should be tidy.
🐩Respect the Stack – Don’t interrupt dogs being stacked or in training. Wait your turn.
⚠️Stay Alert – Know your armband number, class order, and listen for calls. Pay attention to the ring steward and/or judge’s instructions.

Respecting Handlers & Dogs

🫳Ask Before Touching – Always ask before petting someone’s dog or entering grooming space.
📏Keep Distance – Don’t crowd other dogs in the ring or ring entrance. Not all dogs are social.
🥳Celebrate Quietly – Be happy, but don’t gloat. Show grace in both winning and losing.

What Not to Do

❌ Don’t coach from the sidelines during judging.
❌ Don’t gossip, compare, or criticize others—especially juniors.
❌ Don’t distract dogs in the ring (no squeaking toys or sudden movements).
❌ Don’t correct or scold others’ dogs or children—bring concerns to a mentor or show official.

Social Etiquette

🥰Use Kind Words – Compliment dogs and handlers sincerely.
🎉Support, Don’t Undermine – Encourage, don’t compare.
🚶‍♀️‍➡️Avoid Drama – If there’s conflict, talk privately or walk away.
💬 Don’t engage publicly.

🌟 Best Practices for a Great Experience

✔️ Thank judges, ring stewards, and club volunteers.
✔️ Offer to help juniors or new folks if you see them struggling.
✔️ Bring extras—water, slip leads, poop bags, snacks—and share if needed.
✔️ Focus on your dog and your growth. Every show is a learning opportunity.
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Victim Mentality – Recognize and Counter https://standardpoodlesofforestlakes.com/victim-mentality-recognize-and-counter/ https://standardpoodlesofforestlakes.com/victim-mentality-recognize-and-counter/#respond Tue, 01 Jul 2025 14:40:31 +0000 https://standardpoodlesofforestlakes.com/?p=10627

How Victim Mentality Feeds Cancel Culture in the Dog World

Victim mentality is when someone consistently positions themselves as the wronged party—even in situations where they’re not truly being mistreated. When used intentionally, it can:
– Deflect accountability
– Manipulate public sympathy
– Silence valid criticism
– Rally people to their side without question

In the Dog Show/Breeder Context, This Looks Like:

– Sharing emotionally charged posts about being “attacked” or “bullied”
– Accusing other handlers or breeders of being “mean” or “elitist”
– Framing a personal disagreement as systemic abuse or harassment
– Recasting constructive feedback or policy enforcement as persecution
– Using phrases like “I’m introverted” or “People don’t approach me” as excuses
This behavior taps into the emotional loyalty of followers—especially those who also feel like outsiders—and makes it risky for others to question or speak out without being labeled “the problem.”

Why It’s a Problem:

– It distracts from real issues in breeding or handling
– It erodes trust in true accountability systems (like mentors, clubs, show officials)
– It encourages emotional reactions instead of critical thinking
– It builds divisions and fear-based silence within the community
– It hurts dogs, because time and energy go into drama—not development

What We Can Teach Instead:

– Not every boundary is a betrayal
– You can feel hurt and still be responsible for your actions
– Growth often involves uncomfortable truths—not enemies
– True mentorship includes correction with care, not coddling
– Emotional awareness is important—but so is self-reflection
When victim mentality is weaponized, it becomes a tool to control, divide, and manipulate. And the dogs deserve better.
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End Gaslighting in Dog Show Culture https://standardpoodlesofforestlakes.com/end-gaslighting-in-dog-show-culture/ https://standardpoodlesofforestlakes.com/end-gaslighting-in-dog-show-culture/#respond Tue, 01 Jul 2025 14:36:02 +0000 https://standardpoodlesofforestlakes.com/?p=10622

🤝 Why We Must Avoid Gaslighting in the Dog World
Gaslighting—whether intentional or not—erodes trust, damages confidence, and drives good people away from our community. As competitors, we have a responsibility to build a supportive culture that values growth, sportsmanship, and respect.
Here’s Why It Matters:
1. We were all new once.
No one enters the ring knowing it all. Undermining new exhibitors through manipulation or condescension discourages learning and leads to burnout before they even have a chance to grow.
2. It weakens the sport.
When talented, passionate newcomers leave because they feel unwelcome or confused, we lose future breeders, handlers, judges, and mentors. Gatekeeping doesn’t preserve a breed—it isolates it.
3. It creates fear, not growth.
Gaslighting causes people to second-guess their instincts, fear asking questions, and avoid new experiences. Healthy competition thrives on confidence, not control.
4. We set the tone for the next generation.
The way we speak to and about others—especially juniors, novices, or returners—models what’s acceptable. Let’s be the reason someone stays in the sport, not why they leave.
Instead, Let’s:
💁‍♀️Offer help, not judgment
↗️Give constructive, kind feedback
🙋‍♀️Encourage questions, curiosity, and independence
🥳Celebrate progress—not just ribbons
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Dior Wins Best in Show at 18 mos https://standardpoodlesofforestlakes.com/dior-wins-best-in-show-at-18-mos/ Mon, 01 May 2023 02:18:15 +0000 https://standardpoodlesofforestlakes.com/?p=5438

 

 

 Dior Wins Best in Show at 18 months

Standard Poodles of Forest Lakes 10th BIS/RBIS!!!​

I couldn’t be more proud of my second generation Forest Lakes girl! Dior is a wonderful dog all-around. She is sweet and cuddly, smart and driven, and a complete joy to spend time with.

Dior was selected by my mentor as a keeper from her litter, and I am so very glad she stayed here with me!

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Katerina Earns her American Championship! https://standardpoodlesofforestlakes.com/katerina-earns-her-american-championship/ Sat, 01 Apr 2023 12:10:06 +0000 https://standardpoodlesofforestlakes.com/?p=5167

 

 

Katerina Earns her American Championship!

Katerina earned her Champion Title with a fabulous Best of Winners award at the Key to the Sea show in the Toledo, OH area yesterday. We are so thankful to the inimitable Ann Rairigh, Julia Kinsey and team for their beautiful presentation of Katie! And thank you to Judge Diane Anderson for recognizing my girl in a fabulous line up!  Ann and team had nothing but compliments for Katie!

If I put the correct data into the calculator, this was Katie’s second 5 Point Major!

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Incentives for Titles! Wow! https://standardpoodlesofforestlakes.com/incentives-for-titles-wow/ Mon, 27 Mar 2023 23:05:50 +0000 https://standardpoodlesofforestlakes.com/?p=5161

 

 

Standard Poodles of Forest Lakes offers incentives for up to 3 titles!

Title Incentives: We encourage our SPFL families to participate in any canine activities they are interested in! To date, from our 7 litters, our puppies and their owner/handlers have earned 77 titles and counting!!! We are pleased to announce that we will now offer incentives for earning champion titles to support those activities.

AKC:

  • Championship in Conformation: $150
  • Championship in 1st Performance Sport: $150

 

UKC:

  • Championship in Conformation: $50
  • Grand Championship in Conformation: $100
  • Championship in 1st Performance Sport: $100

 

FAQ:
  1. What is Conformation?
    1. Conformation is a way to demonstrate that a dog meets the breed standard published by the parent breed club. It is typically used for breeding stock to prove a dog’s qualities, and in European countries, it is even required for breeding licenses. However, Conformation competition can be a lot of fun and an easy entry point (AKC Fun Matches or UKC) for any handler/dog team, even if they are not planning to breed!
  2. Are you doing this just to grow your kennel name?
    1. While some titles our dogs’ progeny earn may generally benefit us, our purpose is to encourage more people to get involved. There are two main reasons. 1. Any training undergone to compete in dog activities can deepen the relationship between you and your dog – and that is a heartfelt goal we genuinely understand and support. 2. But also, Dog Fancy needs new participants, new perspectives that they bring, and new ideas for the future.
  3. Do you provide incentives for performance or companion sports titles?
    1. Examples: Obedience, Rally, Nose/Scent Work, Agility, Fast CAT, Precision Coursing
      1. Yes! We are happy to reimburse for companion sports titles that earn a championship, such as the AKC Master Agility Championship (MACH) or Dock Diving Champion (CH) Titles.
    2. Do you provide incentives for titles from other clubs?
      1. Examples: Barn Hunt Association (BHA), Dock Diving, Do More with Your Dog, etc.
        1. Some of these organizations partner with AKC, and some are simply ways to get involved with dog activities from home (similar to the companion titles in Question 5). Titles that can be recognized by AKC on the dog’s official title and registration are incentivized. For example, you may apply to have a title from BHA added to your dog’s AKC record and, when it is official, receive the incentive.
      2. Do you provide incentives for companion titles?
        1. Examples: AKC S.T.A.R. Puppy, Canine Good Citizen, CGC Advanced, CGC Urban, Virtual Home Manners Puppy or Adult, Agility Coursing Test, Trick Dog, AKC Fit Dog
          1. We encourage every family to attend at least puppy classes and earn some companion titles to celebrate their successes. These titles represent your growing relationship with your puppy, and as owner/handlers you should be proud of these! We love to recognize these accomplishments on our social media pages. We value these titles, as they validate your efforts to provide life skills for your pup, but they cost little to attain and can even be done from home. We do not offer reimbursement on companion titles as they do not require much investment nor do they involve competition.

Please reach out if you have any questions!

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