Why You Can’t (and Shouldn’t) Shop for a Puppy Like a Product
One of the most common messages I receive goes something like this:
“We’re looking for a puppy—do you have any available?”
or
“We’d love a cream male—do you have one right now?”
I completely understand the excitement of wanting to welcome a new puppy into your life. But here’s the truth: if you’re working with an ethical, preservation breeder, the process is going to look—and feel—very different from shopping for a pet online.
We Don’t Breed on Demand
At Standard Poodles of Forest Lakes, our dogs are our family. They live in our home, not in kennels. Every litter we plan is the result of years of research, health testing, evaluation, and observation—not to mention deep consideration of temperament, structure, and goals for the breed. Our litters are not frequent, and they are never rushed.
And just because a female reaches breeding age doesn’t mean we breed her right away. We wait until she is fully mature—physically and mentally—so that she can confidently raise and care for her puppies. That foundation gives each pup the best possible start in life.
It’s About the Right Match—Not Just Availability
When you bring home a puppy from us, you’re not just “buying a dog.” You’re becoming part of our extended family. And just like with any meaningful relationship, that takes time and mutual understanding. We’re committed to placing our puppies in homes where they’ll be loved and supported for a lifetime. That means getting to know you—your lifestyle, your goals, your expectations—and selecting the puppy who fits best.
We don’t let families pick based on color, size, or who was first in line. We match puppies based on personality, potential, and fit. We’ve spent every moment with these puppies from birth—we know them better than anyone.
Why Backyard Breeders Thrive (and Why You Shouldn’t Buy From Them)
Backyard breeders—and even some volume-focused kennels—thrive on impulse buyers: those looking for a specific color, those unwilling to wait, or those who may have already been told they’re not an ideal candidate for the breed. They breed for demand, not for the betterment of the breed. The result? Puppies that may lack stable temperaments, sound structure, and long-term health support.
You Have Two Choices: Ethical Breeder or Adoption
Let’s be honest: if you want a well-bred, purebred dog, there are only two responsible choices—work with a reputable, ethical breeder, or adopt. That’s it. And if you’re choosing to work with a preservation breeder, it’s not about filling an order—it’s about trusting the process.
Choose the Breeder, Not Just the Puppy
Every ethical breeder has different priorities—conformation, health, service potential, therapy aptitude, performance, or companionship. That’s why it’s so important to choose a breeder whose values align with yours. Before asking, “Do you have puppies available?” take the time to form a connection. Learn about the program. Share your hopes and plans for life with your future dog. Be willing to wait. Sometimes that wait is months—or longer—but it’s always worth it.
And in the end? You don’t “pick” your puppy. The breeder helps you meet the right one. The one who fits not just your wishlist, but your world.
Looking to start that journey with us?
We’d love to get to know you. Learn more about our program, our values, and our process here.
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